
Weddings and Commitment Ceremonies
Whether you want a romantic, fun filled marriage ceremony, one with rituals, a surprise wedding, or a simple no fuss marriage ceremony, you have came to the right place.
Not sure yet which type of ceremony to choose?
No worries, we will explore all the possibilities and come up with a plan that will be totally right for you.
Why should you choose me?
Plain and simple, I love my job, I am relaxed and capable, and making your wedding ceremony amazingly wonderful and perfect for both of you, and your guests, is at the heart of all I do.

Unique
Personalised Ceremonies
Let's meet
Are we a match?
I prefer to see my couples in person for a no obligation chat to see if I am the right fit for them. Following that we can arrange to meet to plan your ceremony in detail.
Bespoke
Ceremony Writing
I will prepare a draft ceremony to see if we are on the right page and work closely with you to create your perfect ceremony.
Customised
Symbolic Rituals
Music special to you both, personalised vows with modern or ancient rituals or a simple no fuss ceremony.
Just for you
Whatever you choose, it will be right for you.
Your ceremony - Your way
Symbolic Rituals
Other services

Vow Renewal
What type of vow renewal ceremony are you looking to plan? Whether it is a Small and intimate vow renewal or a big celebration of marriage or commitment renewal give me a call to schedule an appointment and see what I can do for you.
The ceremony broadly echoes the marriage or commitment ceremony in structure. You can reaffirm those vows or exchange new vows that reflect the maturity of your relationship. If you have children you may wish to involve them in the ceremony. Whatever your thoughts are I will be more than happy to make your dream vow renewal a reality to say 'I still do'. and affirm your choice was a good one and you are sticking with it. Let me help make it extra special.

Naming Ceremony
Being a mum, a nana and a great grandmother I Just love baby naming ceremonies. Baby naming ceremonies are a wonderful way to introduce your new addition to your family and friends and to communicate your commitment to the child, to their welfare and their future happiness. There are many different elements that you can introduce into your ceremony to make it unique, personal, meaningful and symbolic of the love and dedication that goes into raising your child. Children of any age can have a ceremony and you can include whoever you choose to take part in the ceremony. It can include a ritual or rituals within it if you so wish, such as a rose petal shower, remembrance candles, unity candles, sand ceremony, jar full of wishes, blessing stones or time capsules, the list is endless.

Funeral Services
I offer a bespoke service offering guidance and advice to create the perfect funeral ceremony.
Every life is unique therefore so is every death. I am able to offer ceremonies to reflect the wishes and beliefs of the family be it Non religious, spiritual or religious. Where your loved one did not have a strong religious belief, you may wish to include some spiritual elements to be woven into the ceremony.
Amidst the grief it is often hard to know what you or your loved one wants for the funeral service. I will take the time to sit down with you and help guide you through making some of those difficult decisions. Please visit my other website to find out more.
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What can I include in my ceremony?You can include whatever is meaningful to you as a couple. There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to structure your ceremony but it does have to be ‘right’ for you. You must include the legal declaration to confirm that you accept each other in marriage and you both must sign the marriage schedule along with the officiant and two witnesses over sixteen. The rest of the elements of the wedding is up to you. You might include you love story telling your guests what you mean to each other, readings and poems, songs, your vows, the ring exchange and symbolic rituals such as handfasting, ring blessing, or drinking from the quaich. There are numerous symbolic gestures. Whatever you choose has got to be right for you.'
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How much does it all cost?Costs start at £500 for legal weddings and renewal of vows ceremonies. Additional costs are incurred if you choose bespoke ritual items or choose to retain ritual items used in the ceremony. Up to 50 miles return journey from my home in Helensburgh to the venue is included. I will discuss and agree that with you in advance. Dependant upon the distance, accommodation costs may be incurred. There are no hidden costs. I’ll give you a clear cost in advance so that there are no surprises. No matter who your chosen officiant is you will also have to pay the Registrar’s statutory fees directly when you apply for your marriage licence. This is currently £100.
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When will it all need to be paid by?There is a booking fee of £100 at the outset with the final balance due no later than one month before the wedding. You may if you wish spread your payments by making payments into your account in the run up to the wedding with any remaining balance being paid one month prior to the wedding.
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Which organisation do you belong to?I am a member of and a Minister with the Open Sanctuary. I don't minister in the conventional sense in a physical church or parish. My parish is an invisible parish as I serve the spiritual needs of all beliefs and none. One of the blessings we receive as Ministers in the Open Sanctuary is when we are invited to honour the key points in life by creating and delivering weddings, funerals, baby naming and other rites of passages.
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Do we need to have the same beliefs as you?No, absolutely not. I can conduct a ceremony for you according to the beliefs you have or none if that is the case. It is your ceremony........your way. It isn't about me or my beliefs, so you don't have to worry about adhering to the beliefs of the officiant conducting the ceremony.
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Can we write our own vows?Absolutely. You don't need to say the same things but you do need to agree on everything that is being said. The whole point of writing your own vows is that you get to be you. You might decide to speak your vows one line at at time, or as a statement or in a Question and Answer format to individual promises.
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Can you help with our vows?Of course, once I get to know you as a couple I will offer you suggestions for vows within the draft script and will guide you through the process.
Rachel Cunningham Veale
"Thank you so much for making our ceremony so special and memorable."
Kirsty and Graeme
"We loved the whole day and the ceremony was amazing."
Elliot Cunningham Veale
"We had the most wonderful time and the ceremony you performed for us was incredibly special."